Monday, 16 February 2009

Who Really Deserves the Wrath

I have been debating this post for almost a week now, mostly because I wanted to be sure of my own stand and thoughts. It is something that has caught on like wild fire, the Pink Chaddi Campaign (PCC). With some of my favourite bloggers supporting it passionately, my doubts seemed more doubtful even to myself. But before going further, I am happy to see that the campaign has managed to garner so much support and has been such a success. Its great that people have been really outraged and done something about it this time.

At a more personal level, I was not very convinced with the entire thing, and as always with me, knew that it was not something I wanted to be a part of instinctively. And yet seeing all the people supporting with such vigour and passion I started getting confused. A fellow blogger sent me an invite to join the group on facebook, and in the moment I accepted it. But just did not like calling myself loose. Because that is not what I think of myself. And only after clearing all the thoughts in my mind, did I leave the 'Consortium of pubgoing, loose and forward women'. Why should I call myself names because some goon thinks of me that way. It is like agreeing with him and fighting him, after accepting his verdict. Is it not?

I read more blogs, and found that some other women shared my thoughts too. A few said it is replying to 'nonsense with nonsense'. Really? I wonder! The women and men who joined the campaign, don't seem to think it is something nonsensical, they are rather passionate about it. More importantly, what happened was not nonsense in the first place.It was a criminal offence. Physically abusing and molesting women is a grave crime, NOT nonsense. It is not to be taken lightly. It is pathetic that these men are now roaming free, ready to prey on some other women. That is not nonsense, trust me. The panties they have received has only worked to enrage their narrow minds further and they are wrecking worse mayhem. These people do not understand the act of sending panties to them, honestly I don't get the logic either, so I am going by the 'nonsense for nonsense' theory here.

Many have said it is a non violent way to reply to their disgusting act. I don't understand that people. There is nothing violent about self defence. If someone comes to attack me, rape me, I will fight with all the strength in my body, I will not be non violent. The only non-violent way to deal with these people in my opinion, is to make them actually realise their mistake, and I doubt pink panties will do the trick, it will only further fuel their outbursts.

I admired the protest that was carried out in Delhi on Valentine's Day. I read about it on Indyeah's blog. Superbly done, and exactly the kind of action I would go for, and wholeheartedly support. It has to be made clear that we do not condone an attack on the modesty of women anywhere in our country, that all Indian women(and sensible men) stand together against such acts.

If anyone deserved those panties, it is the Karnataka government and administration. There are always rogue elements in every society, the authorities are responsible to keep them in check and control their activities. It is the government and the police that have failed the women who were attacked in particular and the society in general. They need to be shamed for their inaction and lack of responsibility. It is the government who is at fault here more than anyone else, because it is they who collect votes and taxes from us. It is they who have let these creatures out on bail , allowing them to prey on some more women, and making it clear to others that such acts will not attract any serious punishment. Shameful really really shameful.

The final thing is, what has the PCC achieved? Does the momentum continue past the 14th of Feb. If yes, what does it wish to achieve and most importantly how? Muthalik and gang are crazy goons. they need to be locked up and awarded the severest punishment ensuring such acts do not repeat themselves. So my angst is directed completely at the napunsak* government and police force of Karnataka. They are the ones truly guilty, doing nothing. Goons are goons and will remain that way, it is the government which is responsible to take care of them. Yeddyurappa you are a failure, a sad joke on the state.

* napunsak is Hindi for impotent, but the language makes the word that much more hard hitting.

12 comments:

Bones said...

I agree with you completely - the Karnataka government should have been sent the chaddis...

Mamma mia! Me a mamma? said...

Well written, and I totally understand where you are coming from. I think we all took what we had to, or rather wanted to from this campaign. We all needed an umbrella to help bring us together and I feel the PCC united us and gave us a voice. This should not be a 'the end' but a 'to be continued'.

Surbhi said...

Oh my! What happened to the Mumbai girls is disgusting. But then, the way they reacted and threatened the girls does prove their guilt, doesn't it? Now we must see if at all any action will be taken against them.

Indian Home Maker said...

The gangsters are obviously riled! They did not expect such a backlash ...
I hope we continue with all kinds of protests now, the PCC has started it each one of us must make an effort to keep the protests going, and we really will need to make sure that it doesn't end here.

Indyeah said...

yes, completely understandable GM...a lot of us had doubts..I too had them initially...its great to see that despite the doubts you think it has achieved something....
as surabhi says these are goons abd by making such gestures they prove it too..

:D the nonsense for nonsense theory...Good one..Loved it:)
PS:_In an interview to some channel I used the words Napunsak and Nikamma too:D
for the K govt...
yes,some PCs should be sent to the cowards..who dont move to do anything at all..

*sigh*I am praying and wishing that PCC group takes it forward...

Goofy Mumma said...

Bones - Indeed they are the ones that need to be ridiculed for their inaction.

M4 - I really appreciate that so many people actually united and did something, that is indeed commendable.

Surbhi - there has hardly been any action, when they have physically abused and molested women, to expect action for some obscene long-distance calls and SMSes, is highly unlikely.There is no doubt about their guilt, it is on record. They are goons, and that is what they will remain to be.

IHM - definitely it should not end, but what is also important is to see that actions taken can actually result in something concrete.

Indyeah - There is no doubt that the campaign has managed to unite so many outraged citizens of the country. It is really appreciable.
We have similair opinions on the government i can see.:)

roopscoop said...

of course, i agree with every word written.

Reflections said...

GM...I think u have mentioned the doubts which I thk almost every woman wd have thought atleast once after joining the campaign.
But like Mamma mia says "I think we all took what we had to, or rather wanted to from this campaign. We all needed an umbrella to help bring us together and I feel the PCC united us and gave us a voice."
:-))

Renu said...

I also wholeheartedly agree with you and my anger is towards the law and order machinery of Karnataka who allowed all this to happen and didnt take any action.

Goofy Mumma said...

Roop - :)

Reflections - True and that is the reason why I have appreciated the campaign.

Renu - exactly.

Solilo said...

I can understand GM. I had doubts too but I liked the sarcasm in their logo though I didn't put up the logo I supported it and still support it. I don't want to bring down any peaceful protest. Flowers or chaddis I want to teach these goons a lesson or two.

Impotent govt. (a term I used in my post too earlier) put Muthalik behind bars because it affected them.

I believe that we may have different ways to tackle this fanaticism but the end result we desire is the same.

Jira said...

GM, I liked the idea behind both PCC and 'a valentine for india'. I personally would have never thought of something like the PCC in the first place, and probably would have done something similar to AVFI. But PCC brought Indian women all over the globe together and voice their opinion and 'act' on something they believe in. That is what I love about it. I don't differentiate between PCC and AVFI. I think they both send the same message, albeit in a different manner.

I am not sure whether or not Muthalik and his ganag got the satire and the message behind PCs. But I would still say it is a success in just the fact that the campign brought people together for a cause. It is the step in the right direction.

As far as the govt is concerned, there are hundereds of criminal acts happening all over India and I don't think the govt is going to do anything abt it. Sad, but true.